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24/7 dynamic A power-exchange dynamic that extends beyond scenes into everyday life... 316L surgical stainless steel The same alloy used for orthopaedic implants — non-porous, indestructi... A-spot A sensitive zone in the anterior fornix at the deepest reach of the va... ABS plastic A hard, non-porous, body-safe thermoplastic used for vibrator housings... Acrylic A clear hard plastic used in specialty toys, chastity devices, paddles... Aftercare The deliberate care taken between partners after a BDSM scene — water,... Aftercare Toolkit The collected items kept within scene-reach for use immediately after... Age play Roleplay involving age dynamics between consenting adults: most common... Air-pulse toy A category of clitoral stimulator using air pressure pulses rather tha... Anal beads A graduated string of body-safe spheres designed for anal insertion, t... Anal douche A small squeezable bulb with a smooth nozzle, used to rinse the rectum... Anal douching Rinsing the rectum with plain warm water before anal play for addition... Anal hook A curved stainless-steel hook with a ball end, inserted anally with th... Anal sphincter Two ring muscles at the anus: the external (under voluntary control) a... Anal training The progressive practice of working through increasing toy sizes over... Anal training kit A set of three to five plugs in graduating sizes (typically 0.8 / 1.0... Anus The external opening of the digestive tract. Surrounded by two ring mu... App-controlled toy Any sex toy controlled via a smartphone app over Bluetooth (in-room) o... BDSM Umbrella initialism for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submissi... Ben Wa balls Weighted spheres held inside the vagina that strengthen the pelvic flo... Blindfold A sensory-deprivation accessory worn over the eyes. Removing sight int... Blowjob Oral sex performed on a penis. Wide technique variation; the consisten... Body worship Reverent attention to specific body parts of a partner (feet, hands, b... Body-safe An unregulated marketing term that should mean: non-porous, free of ph...