Workflow
Scene preparation.
Four BondageBox tools, in the order most couples should use them. About 35 minutes of total time, spread across whenever you want to do them. No sign-up; no data stored; shareable between partners by URL.
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1
5 min
Take the kink personality test
Five minutes; you learn how you score across eight traits (Dom, Sub, Switch, Brat, Sadist, Masochist, Caregiver, Voyeur/Exhibitionist). Both partners take it separately; you compare the results before the next step.
You end with: A shareable result URL showing your top traits and a named archetype if your top two combine into one.
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2
15 min
Fill in the Yes / Maybe / No checklist
100 activities across 10 categories. Fill it in separately, then share a private link to compare. The comparison view highlights overlaps (both yes), maybes worth discussing, and hard nos.
You end with: A shared comparison view showing which activities you both want, and which to put on the agenda for the next conversation.
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3
10 min
Generate the negotiation script
Pick the scene shape (12 types), the safeword system, and your experience level together. The tool prints a structured pre-scene conversation script covering safewords, hard limits, scene arc and sign-off.
You end with: A printable script. Read it together once, agree it, then begin. The pre-scene physical safety check and post-scene debrief sit at the end of the same print-out.
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4
5 min
Plan aftercare in advance
Aftercare planned upfront is the difference between a scene that lands and one that drops badly. Pick scene type + duration + intensity; the tool gives you items to have ready, conversation prompts, and a recovery timeline.
You end with: A protocol you can have screenshot or printed. Both top drop and bottom drop covered.
None of these tools store your answers. Everything lives in your browser URL. If you want to come back tomorrow, save the URL; if you want to share with a partner, copy the URL; if you want to forget it ever happened, close the tab.