Checklist Category
Roleplay & Costume
Costumed roleplay, power-imbalance scenarios, praise and humiliation language, pet-play, age-play (adult only), latex / leather / lingerie wardrobe. Roleplay is where eroticism becomes performative; what either partner finds hot here can surprise both of you.
Why this category matters
Roleplay is the category where ten people will have ten different answers to the same activity. Praise turns one person on; humiliation turns another on; latex is essential for one, not for another. Yes/maybe/no maps the specific overlap.
The 10 activities in this category
For each, mark internally whether you would say yes, maybe, or no. Then take the full checklist to share it with a partner.
- 01 Costumed roleplay (uniform, character)
- 02 Power-imbalance roleplay (boss/employee, etc.)
- 03 Praise / encouragement language
- 04 Humiliation language (with care and consent)
- 05 Age-play (adult only)
- 06 Pet-play (kitten, puppy)
- 07 Wearing latex during a scene
- 08 Wearing leather during a scene
- 09 Wearing lingerie during a scene
- 10 Cross-dressing as part of a scene
Use the full tool
To save your answers and share them with a partner, use the full Yes/Maybe/No checklist. 10 activities here are part of 10 categories totalling 100 activities.
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