Checklist Category
Voyeurism & Exhibitionism
Watching, being watched, the eroticism of the gaze. From simple mirror play through partner-narration during a scene to recorded play and (consensual) public-leaning settings. The category that often surprises people: partners who consider themselves modest discover they like specific kinds of being-seen.
Why this category matters
The "being watched" yes turns out to be partial for most people: yes by a trusted partner, no by strangers; yes in a mirror, no on camera; yes through the window, no in the venue. Specifics matter; the checklist surfaces them.
The 10 activities in this category
For each, mark internally whether you would say yes, maybe, or no. Then take the full checklist to share it with a partner.
- 01 Being watched by a partner during solo play
- 02 Watching a partner during solo play
- 03 Sharing photos within an established relationship
- 04 Receiving photos within an established relationship
- 05 Sharing video within an established relationship
- 06 Being recorded during a scene
- 07 Sex in a location with risk of being seen
- 08 Sex with the curtains/windows visible
- 09 Mirror play (watching yourself)
- 10 Partner narrating what they see during a scene
Use the full tool
To save your answers and share them with a partner, use the full Yes/Maybe/No checklist. 10 activities here are part of 10 categories totalling 100 activities.
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